Seorang LELAKI yg bakal menjadi SUAMI patutlah mengetahui kejadian tubuh WANITA dan SIFAT-SIFAT mereka. Kejadian wanita itu tidak sama dengan kejadian lelaki dari segi :
1. Susunan badan wanita hampir sama dengan susunan badan kanak-kanak, menyebabkan wanita itu berperasaan yg keras, mudah terpengaruh oleh peristiwa suka duka, khuatir dan lainnya. Kenangan akan mempengaruhi emosinya agak lama. Emosi yg lebih kuat pada wanita adalah sifat yg sesuai untuk mendidik anak-anak.
2. Kepala wanita dewasa lebih kecil daripada lelaki. ini tanda bahawa akal wanita kurang dari akal lelaki. Pada lelaki itu banyak kecerdikan dan kecerdasan, pada wanita lebih banyak keributan dan kekacauan. Perasaan wanita jauh lebih lemah.
3. Kulit daging wanita umumnya halus dan lunak, dagingnya lemah, hujungan daging lembut, penghujung urat juga lebih lembut. Hubungan urat dengan daging adalah amat lemah serta tipis seratan dagingnya.
4. Tulang wanita terutamanya tulang dada dan punggung adalah berlainan dari lelaki. Kejadian tulang itu agak menyulitkan wanita berjalan, mengakibatkan wanita berjalan dengan cara atau lenggok tertentu
5. Anggota tubuh wanita mengandungi banyak halia. Di dalam halia terkandung banyak lemak. Maka pada tubuh wanita di dapati banyak mengandungi lemak dan lebih subur
6. Saluran darah serta urat saraf wanita lebih kecil dan sempit. Ini menyebabkan kumpulan urat saraf wanita lebih mudah dari segi kejadiannya dan lebih subur.
7. Rambut wanita lebih subur dan ini menyebabkan rambut boleh tumbuh dengan panjang dan lebat, sebagai pasangan kepada akalnya yg pendek.
8. Wanita mempunyai sifat yg suka menunjuk-nunjuk akan rupa parasnya dan bentuk badannya. Suka dipuji akan kecantikannya dan suka menghiaskan dirinya untuk mendapat pujian. Maka wanita yg solih adalah lebih baik di pilih menjadi bakal isteri agar sifat-sifat ini hanya di tonjolkan kepada suaminya sahaja.
9. Wanita akan melakukan apa saja kerana perasaan sayangnya kepada suaminya dan anaknya. Perasaan ini biasannya perlu di nasihati oleh suaminya kerana akan cenderung bagi isteri itu terlalu manjakan anak, atau mengambil berat tentang hal ehwal suami yg membuatkan suami berasa kurang senang. Namun itu di lakukan atas perasaan sayang.
Saturday, November 29, 2008
What Women Say..abd What They Actually Mean
(1) Fine:This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes:If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing:This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead:This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh:This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay:This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks:A woman is thanking you-do not question... or faint! Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever:Is a woman's way of saying F---- YOU! (9) Don't worry about it, I got it:Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
(2) Five Minutes:If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing:This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead:This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh:This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay:This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks:A woman is thanking you-do not question... or faint! Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . that will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever:Is a woman's way of saying F---- YOU! (9) Don't worry about it, I got it:Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.
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